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1 / coffee daze... 2 / just because... 3 / yes, it's true! 4 / goodnight LA... 5 / raindrops... 6 / eating myself calm... 7 / a wise woman 8 / class is in session 9 / current situation... 10 / LA favorite! 11 / naked statues... 12 / no rest for the weary... 13 / sneaky kitty... 14 / camp circa 2005 15 / down the rabbit hole... 16 / daddy & me 17 / two of us have cats 18 / cute kids 19 / wynwood kitchen & bar 20 / fafinette 21 / selfie time 22 / hello LA! 23 / late night baking 24 / running towards something...
***Today I am thankful for a new year and a new perspective on life... let's do this 2016!***
^^^isn't she just a doll?!^^^
^^^lost some tears right about here^^^
^^^one of my long time favorites!^^^
^^^ her daddy serenaded the newlyweds with the saxophone!^^^
^^^my east coast girls^^^
A few weekends ago I was lucky enough to witness love conquer distance and time yet again! One of my college besties said I do to her love of over a decade. Maybe I have an extra soft spot for their story because it rings so close to my own. American girl meets boy with an accent (this one's German though) and falls head over heels, madly and senselessly in love. Yes, there were many years of hardship and more obstacles to overcome than most young love should have to endure... but they stood the trial of time and distance, making their relationship all the stronger. And so the rest is history and now a new chapter in their romance begins, one where they get to live in the same country! And believe me when I say no one could be happier for the newlyweds than me. I love you both :)
***Today I am thankful that I was able to witness another one of my best friends get married... she was beautiful and he so handsome***
top: madewell (similar) / pants: c/o hudson / shoes: mossimo via target / watch: fossil / bracelet: mint julep / nails & toes: essie (geranium)
A while back I got to have a little fun at work (shocker, I know!) and brainstorm with the marketing team on new features for our instagram account. One of the ideas I pitched was showcasing the various ways the staff wear the same pieces since we all happen to already own a lot of the same styles. I'm always inspired and pleasantly surprised at how some of my fellow colleagues style the very same pieces I own, completely different from anything I would've thought to do. My love for self expression through fashion is what caught me noticing this at work and has even helped me stretch my own styling skills. First up, a cropped skinny cargo pant... something I wouldn't normally wear myself so a bit of a toughie! I did my research and checked out some of my favorite instagramers for inspiration, finally landing on this look. If you know me, you know I love anything with hints of masculinity so the cargo pant naturally worked with my style. It also helped for my petite frame that these were skinny and cropped so they wouldn't overwhelm my body. I decided to pair the cargos with a silky button down shirt (button down shirts are kinda my jam) and make it a little more girly by adding a pair of wedges. The look embodied a tomboy chicness that was very much me and super comfy. Check out how my fellow design ladies styled their cargos here!
***Today I am thankful for fashion... mock if you must, but it's truly great to be able to dress like your best self ***
hat: biltmore via madewell / sunglasses: warby parker / jacket: hudson / dress: lush via modcloth / bralette: honeydew via madewell / vans via madewell / purse: camden market / watch: michael kors (similar)
And then there was the time I posted this, and then this, and then finally this. Instagram quickly became my main outlet, with posts getting lengthier and more raw at times. Being able to share just the right amount at just the right times made it my go to and even then I faltered some. Also how crazy is it that I've had a kitty, Brooklyn Archer Beale, for over eight months and I have yet to introduce him to you guys. Of course since his arrival I've become all sorts of crazy cat lady (literally) and yes, he has his own Instagram account where we are working on making him super famous because raw, organic food ain't free kitty! Brooks, as I like to call him, came into my life at just the perfect time too and one day I'll get around to telling you all that story. Believe me, the fact that I chose to name him after one of my favorite places is not lost on me either. Future life goals: get Brooklyn (and me) to Brooklyn!
In the rather short time that I've been 30, I've managed to lose two different credit cards (one was actually hubs and one I later found in my pocket but that was after I had already canceled it), lost my license (that was thankfully found and returned to me by some kind anonymous stranger), had my taxes f*ed up so we ended up owing Uncle Sam a good ol' chunk of change, been the victim of credit card fraud (who spends so much at Home Depot?), been in a minor fender bender while waiting at a red light (really Beyonce was fine though), gone through two rounds of anti-biotics for a sinus infection, had numerous colds/allergies/migraines/tension headaches (basically falling apart at the seams over here), started projecting onto others (whoops!), started really hating on my job and LA and pretty much everything else you can think of, tested my marriage to the brink of no return (almost) along with my sanity, and written this annoyingly long run-on paragraph of a sentence. Impressive, I know! And here I was determined to have a good year.
But it took all that, a lot of tears (A LOT), and a mural of a face that triggered the pun about about facing life (I don't even like puns) to help me start seeing things clearly again. I had to fall way, way down and hit the rock bottom of all rock bottoms to realize there's no where left to go but up. All my self destructive tendencies had, well, destructed everything so now I am ready to rebuild. It's like my therapist says... or she will say once I've found her because when in LA...
So that was a lot of rambling and I hope it didn't scare you from coming back. They won't all be like this, I promise. But some will be because I'm realistic enough to know that nothing worth having ever comes easy and set backs are expected. What can I say except that "I just want to be ok, be ok, be ok. I just want to be ok today" since that's been the soundtrack that's been playing on repeat in my brain for the last year or so. Yep, I've totally cracked but it's ok :)
PS- street art: face mural by Vhils / located: 1103 Abbot Kinney Blvd, Venice CA 90291 (junk food store)
***Today I am thankful for Ingrid Michaelson for really hitting the nail on the head with that song!***
jacket: current elliot / cardigan: madewell / turtleneck: madewell (similar) / jeans: hudson / shoes: madewell / backpack: everlane
There's something truly magical about strolling through vineyards, especially while tipsy. It felt like the Disneyland of adults. Everything was perfectly manicured and eerily beautiful. With a full wine glass in hand, the birds chirping, and my love by my side, my little heart was content. Yes, it was just like the Disney I remember as kid, only better! Now how can I get back there...
***Today I am thankful for cabernet sauvignon... and well, and the reds really!***